Stability, balance, healing and how long it takes??

Have you ever lost someone or something you thought you could never live without? Have you ever been in a position when you thought that you can’t handle the pain, that nothing seems to make any sense anymore?! I feel you!

I am not an expert, I am a work in progress individual, I ask questions anytime something happens to me or to the ones in my surrounding. I simply love to explain feelings 😊, especially the ones that are harder to be explained, and easier to be felt. I like to materialize it as much as I can.

When we suffer we think that this is the end, we have no strength to move forward, we can not handle life anymore.

And that it is not true, at all, we all know, that after darkness, the purest light always comes, and we become stronger than ever. So do not despair if you are going through a tough period in your life. Everything shall pass and you will be fine again, better than before actually. I am not saying healing it is going to happen overnight, but with patience, courage and the positive attitude, it is going to happen rather soon.

It takes at least one month to balance yourself after a challenging situation in your life, whether it is a breakup, a loss of a family member, a friend, a pet, simply a change in your career or a haircut that went astray, you name it. One particular month. Hold on…

The bigger the loss, the more you feel it, unfortunately. It takes at least 6 months to one year for the full healing to happen. I mean body, mind, spirit, emotional state. If it is a big heartbreak especially from love than it varies, but usually does not go up to one year, and then you can move on with life, like the new you.

Bear in mind, this does not mean that you will delete everything, such as memories, or feelings, or that you will never think for the person ever again. Those people are usually always in our hearts, no matter what, but we should accept life as it is, as a natural process. Nothing less, nothing more. We got to move on!

As I mentioned above, This is going to be different for different individuals, some are more willing to let go, some have to learn how to let go, however, that it is most likely the time in general. One month… six months… one year…

As per those that are spiritually awakened these periods of healing and balancing are shorter, and for people that are enlightened beings, I don’t think this applies to them, because in their perception there is no duality, there is no fear of loss or death, there are no attachments and they are in general living in freedom, in the highest levels of consciousness, where we all are going to be one day. This is how I believe they feel, I am not there yet… ❤️❤️❤️