Relationships versus personal achievements!

Relationships… Everybody’s favorite topic, am I right? Or is it every women favorite topic? Hmmm

I am coming from a culture that the best you can wish to someone it is “I wish you to have a good destiny”, and by that they mean you to be blessed with a good wife or husband otherwise you are simply not lucky or at worst you do not know how to keep a relationship, therefore you are not worthed.

Therefore luck it is something external to you and nothing personal. And then comes the child, are you “able” to have kids, or you are cursed? This is how unfortunately it is, well from most of the percentage of the population with some exceptions. This is the expectation. Period!

Ironically, most of the greatest people I know, luckily they have spent most of their life being single, most likely by choice, not because they are not lucky or they don’t know, but because they have other wishes and desires for themselves.

Those creatures are more career oriented, they know that luck means building a nice future independently, that a child or a partner will not define you and they are high achievers or they have their eyes in their price, which is definitely their choice.

Being in a relationship, it is amazing and it is part of life, having children too, but it is not the most important thing one can have, we are here to shine individually.

Whether they are part of your life or not, luck, destiny, self-reliance, self-respect are all in your hands, everyone else it is living their life with or without you in it. It is your duty to do the same.

Instead of wasting your energy going after a partner, it is better if you put yourself out there and energize your entire being with millions of beautiful things that life has to offer, and it is just for your own pleasure, with the pure intention to make you and just you the happy person you would love to be.

Let your partners be, and let them do the same with their life. When you separately fulfill your inner selves, you both find the eternal beauty in interdependence. You will be flattered to spend time together and for sure you won’t be threatened by the time spent alone.

 So today decide what you want and dig deep within yourself to find the joy and all the reasons to be optimistic and successful. Today don’t let society to define who you are or who you should be. This is your choice, this is your freedom, the most valuable gift you will ever be blessed with. Enjoy the ride alone and then include others, it is all up to you!

And…you know that I love you! Also, you don’t have to love me back! Just be happy! ❤️❤️❤️