When love heals!

It does not matter if you have had one or more relationships, short-term or long-term. It does not matter how many times you have been loved, or dumped, who loved more and who loved less. It does not matter if you have loved platonically or else, it does not matter how hard your heart has been crushed and broken, it does not matter how many times you have suffered or how many times you have caused someone suffering, you can still HEAL yourself. And when you do, you also have the potential to heal others, in the end, what goes around comes around.  
You will still find that peace in your heart, whether it is by loving yourself or by loving yourself, and then by being loved by someone else.

And when love heals…

You have a real purpose and you wake up in the morning energized. You don’t mind merging with another. You make plans together and all the thoughts lead naturally into the future. Your vision is not blurred, you can clearly see their flaws and their qualities and you still stick with each other. You are aware of their intentions. You agree even when you disagree because you know you are mature enough to understand different opinions are not to be taken personally. 

You are not afraid to ask because every answer is worth hearing it. You go on with your plans during the day and you don’t feel lost. You can’t wait to see them, but you appreciate the time spent apart, it does not feel like a threatening it feels like “I have time to do my own stuff and that’s cool”. You get reassured even when you are not actually thinking of it. They are there but you still do not take them for granted especially when you know the difference between feeling safe and not feeling safe.

They play with you, yes those kinds of games that are far from messing up with emotions or our wellbeing. They will treat you nice and they will help you heal all the aches of the past. They are nurses of your warts, and although you can’t believe it when… it slowly happens. You have hoped heartedly that someday you will meet someone like them. When you were bleeding, in all others, you were hoping to find them. 

You feel like you are directing all your energies toward success and constructive behavior. When stability it is way better than ten intense relationships. When peace for the first time it is so appealing. When silence it is actually not awkward at all, it is nurturing. When slow it is steady and not boring.

When there is no need for reassurance because you are reciprocated, appreciated and approved. You don’t have to go extra miles because less is more. There is no need to rush because no one is going nowhere. Criticism and fixing yourself does not feel like a chore but like a necessary effort. You don’t have sex, you make love. 

“To some, we give a lesson when we stay, to others when we leave” ❤️❤️❤️