When we chose unavailable partners, just to get back to ourself!

“Your lips are like heaven, they hold answers to all my questions”!

This is actually a divine way of showing how lovable you are, how worth you are, and that you are the master of your own destiny!

It is hard and painful, to feel rejected, or to not be loved in return, it is actually not “normal”, it can turn into an obsession and can drain us if we allow it to get us out of whack. 

Have you ever been in a situation when even though you are in a relationship with that person, you give it all, and they give you nothing or just a little so you can stay there, just to keep you hooked so you don’t leave, they take you for granted, disrespect you, they don’t show love and affection, they are never there for you when you need them, they never open up to you, they ignore you, they do not listen to you and they do not give a damn for your needs, also whatever you say it is garbage, and so are you until they find a better substitute. 

I am not blaming them for treating you this way, because you deserve it, my dear, you have been signed up for that lesson. You were both “sick”, you both were supposed to heal, it just happened they were more unbalanced than you since you wisened up and decided to grow.

Ironically, this is your asshole guide, they are showing you in their own clueless way how much do you respect yourself, how much do you value your self, how much do you love yourself, and it is all up to you to claim your power and freedom back, or to stay stuck in the mud.

Open your eyes, stop putting all your energy and attention into them, stop feeding them snacks, turn that around, turn that care toward yourself,  look at you how amazing you are, don’t you see your light, don’t you believe in your abilities, empower yourself and be strong, get out from where you no longer  belong, they are giving you all the reasons so you can leave, because they have done their job, they have accomplished their mission. They were just a tool in God’s hands to help you wake up!  Do you see how much they indeed loved you?!

Move forward with lots of love, forgiveness for the “guru”, because who knows probably they will go and teach someone else, or someone else will teach them, perhaps you moving away will shake them up, we all know that the student becomes better and overcomes his teacher, life has been proving that over and over. Even if that does not happen, stay in love! ❤❤