When we are to self-sufficient!
I have always loved self-contentment, independence, it gives you so much freedom to do whatever you like and taking care of yourself without needing anything or anyone it feels like heaven!
You are non judgmental, you are so powerful, you release others, and you make everyone around to feel that sense of lightness, or you attract those who are not self-sufficient like a moth to a flame, because no matter how easy-going and how much you look after yourself, you are able to do so with others.
Eventually, you would prefer to give them a hand, to help them become aware to stand on their own, but you are not the type to keep others in codependency either, because you are like a bird, and birds need to fly high, you are not even that type of bird that can be caged. You are going to fight for yourself!
Although there is a price with self-sufficiency, as in extreme, you can be disconnected from the world, you can always be a stranger, you can not settle easily, you can be distracted and get off the trail with the first thing that gets your attention, you are not open to others opinions and ideas, you are not considerate of others feelings, and you have it difficult to participate in healthy partnerships, because you think you can do everything on your own, you can fulfill yourself in all directions.
Truth is, we are here to experience togetherness as well, and it requires lots of compromise on your side, but you are not the one who likes to budge, you are like the Lion, you are the king of the jungle, you want to roar in very open and wide spaces!
We have to aim to become self-standing, emotionally, physically, mentally, sexually, financially, but we do not have to forget how to coexist, otherwise we will sway even from our inner self, from oneness, because the more self-sustaining we try to become the more we get away from the truth, and the more we find it hard to see things as they are, from different angles and point of views. We have to understand that there are other companions in our journey and that is the beauty of sharing, of procreation.
To conclude, when one is to self-reliant, he is becoming an isolated and virgin Island with no human interactions, and instead of his liberation, the risks to create his own imprisonment! Raise your vibration! ❤❤