Relationship entanglement!
As I grow older, as I grow spiritually, I realize that emotional stability and financial independence are the most important things one has to achieve before anything else!
I also believe that we must start from emotional groundedness, through that we can achieve all other goals, and we will have a life overflowing in abundance.
I can not understand why some people give so much power to someone else, and hold them accountable for providing them things they can provide for themselves?!
I mean, we are here to help others in their journey and they are here to help us, because we are great in one area comparing to other areas, and the other is master in another field. Besides that, there are some that have chosen a difficult path, and some that have chosen to learn the lesson of sharing, but helping is different story, and giving the other all the key to your freedom, happiness this is wrong, this leads into unfulfilling relationships, abuse, creates painful cycles of karma that are hard to be resolved, takes couples into divorce, or marriage becomes a living hell.
Actually, through my studies in Astrology and Psychology, I have realized that we should marry after the age of 33, since debts from the past are kind of resolved, we have been working out our own emotional drama through partnering up but, not through marriage and failure and divorce, we have had the chance to build our own foundation, we are more independent, we know what we want, and what we do not want from a partner as well as what we are able to give.
There is definitely going to be challenges and misconceptions, life will happen, we can not stop the natural process of the Universe, but something is for sure, when two mature people collaborate things work out way better, because they understand their freedom and that of the other, they are not dependent, they know they are co-creator of a wonderful, equally romantic, powerful reality!
Moreover, they do not stand in the way of the other’s progress, they do not abandon the ship when things get tough, because one is giving all and the other is taking all, passion will not dissipate after year two of dating, because there is nothing more beautiful than a couple that grows together, even if they follow totally opposite passions, they uplift one – another, they do not suck one – another’s energy! They are simply delightful!
Chose wisely, build yourself first, feel great in your own skin, follow your heart desires, your hobbies, let the karma gets dissolved, do not try to make your mom happy, usually her happiness is far away from yours, and her happiness is also her selfishness, it is not your happiness.
I do not want to forget another important opinion, when people think: Oh, but marriage is sacred and you should work hard to keep it together, I do not want to hurt my kids, family, friends, my partner… Absolutely, marriage and family are sacred, when they are not entangled in disbalance, when people can’t stand the other, when they sleep in different rooms, fight in front of the children, and so many other things that are unfortunately occurring every day, please save yourself some headaches, and stop living in delusions, no one whatsoever would like to spend the rest of their life with someone they do not love. Marriage is sacred when done from love, other than that it is better to not even exist!
Raise your vibration! ❤❤
