It is ok to love, but…
I do not know how to love a little, I only know how to give it all…my love Is nothing but genuine!
Love is a force that moves us from inside – out, everything makes sense and aligns perfectly all around when you make love a priority, nothing else matters more than love, absolutely nothing, take this from an empath!
It is ok to love, it is ok to be vulnerable and to bend for love, it is not a weakness, it takes lots of guts indeed! Sadly, in a world where everyone has their swords up trying to defend themselves from getting hurt, losing the best feelings they can ever experience, and the greatest relationships they can ever be in!
Loving is awesome, but this does not mean to accept disrespect of any sort, because, when our heart is wide open not everyone is on the same boat, so you might as well be loving but not naive!
Unfortunately, nowadays and since forever I believe, there are relationships when one loves more than the other. Therefore, who loves less, thinks as though they have some sort of power over the other and they are entitled to do whatever with the one who is more in love. They can use and abuse you with no remorse!
I love you, but I don’t want to be in a committed relationship; I love you, but I am also in love with 2-3 other woman; He loves me, but he hits me sometimes; I love you but I can not leave my partner, traditional, financial abcdef…reasons.
Now, this is my concern, just because I love you this does not mean that I am going to put up with your temper, with your unkind behavior, with your indecisiveness. Just because I love you does not mean I am your slave nor your b… so you can treat me as you please.
I am not frightened to love, because I know the benefit that comes from such, and I am unshaken in my ground, empowered, as my power lies exactly in love. Love is actually my strength that helps me overcome everything, creating my own long-lasting happiness.
In a situation when you are not being loved, cared for, when you are not the first choice, when you are being abused physically or emotionally, when you are not nurtured and treated with lots of respect, please stand up for yourself, do not wait on a bench for them to grow up, live your life and tell them I love you too, BUT I choose myself and I will not participate in any drama, also tell them to give you a call when they have decided where they belong, when they make up their mind!
Go and live your joy and love yourself, because self – love and self -respect will definitely make room for those who know your worth! I love you because I am able to love myself, I am able to love someone else, I am love and so are you! I love you because I can, and I honor my emotions, I will not whatsoever allow anyone to treat me less then I deserve, after all, who is loving is going to be always blessed and reciprocated! Raise your vibration! ❤❤