Are you a child that comes from love, obligation or societal expectations?!
I love my parents with all of my heart, even if I would redo this life, I would still choose them. They take care of me bravely, even at this age, one on the earth and the other on heaven, I bless them both for what they worked so hard to give me, and I forgive them for what they could not. I do not want to sound judgmental, we have the right to go in the direction we desire, but this is my opinion regarding children!
I have always somehow been aware of karma, and I do not want to bring in life a child that is not coming from love, a child that is coming from ME not healing my own issues, a child that is coming because my age is right, a child that is coming because I have to make my friends, coworkers, my boss, my parents happy, a child that is coming because my ancestors have had children and I have too, because I feel lonely and I am not able to love myself so at least someone else will love me, a child that is coming because he has to take care of me at my old age, a child that is coming from abandonment issues, drama and trauma. A child that is coming from two partners that have no idea what and how to take care of themselves first. A child that is denied, attention, emotional or material needs. Do you hear me?!
A child should be brought in the best conditions, (physically and spiritually), this is how great foundation and a bright future can be build up. It is not good whatsoever, to bring a child and you do not look after them properly. A child needs more than food, a child needs two happy parents that know how to take care for another creature, that are loving, that their cup is full and complete so they can be able to share because you can not share from emptiness, you will just create more.
As much as I would love to be a loving parent, to have that wonderful experience, giving all that I can, helping him/her grow old and wise, bringing light to the earth and no more distractions, I would rather not have one, then giving birth to someone that does not come from pure love, from my side and from another individual.
It might seem harsh, but this is how I feel because I truly care for the future of the world and I really love to see only goodness exists around and everywhere, I really desire the world to ascend and only peace to touch us all!
Are you ready to plant seeds of the future, if yes awesome, if not, keep on healing then do it! I personally do not want to bring a child here so he spends the rest of his life healing, I am going to do my best so he enjoys life with all the beautiful things that can happen, rather than bringing a child out of all the above and creating more karma. I just want healthy, beautiful, angelic and blessed children! Even if they have minor issues, being brought in life by two healthy parents, they will definitely be raised with lots of love, dedication, and proper manners! Raise your vibration! ❤❤
