There is nothing that turns me off more than dishonesty!
” I love my wife and I want to be with her for the rest of my life” But: -How many times have you been cheating on her? How many times have you been thinking about cheating on her? How many times you have been controlling or manipulating her so she can not leave you? If the answer is many times, then yeah good luck with your long lasting failed relationship and with your pattern, you refuse to change!
Some individuals can do great in the material world, they are amazing at starting things, but they are the ones who never accomplish anything good in reality. They just move from one project to the other, from one relationship to the other, they promise way more than they can handle, they are dishonest of themselves and others, they do not want to grow, they are Pitter Pan’s until death and they see the world as a playground in purgatory, playing on all the fields.
They do not keep their promises, I mean almost never, but they are great at making you believe they will!
They exist in a matrix state, going after failure because they like the thrill of it and this life is to get as much as you can but they never really have any consideration for how they get things and how they get what they want. It is not only about getting what you want right now, but it is also about how you get it. I believe there is tremendous happiness and sweet victory when you get things done through seriously putting efforts in achieving what you need and want, with integrity because let’s say you get something easy and fast through lies or manipulation, for how long are you going to escape, even if you fooled the other and or a situation, I mean can you sleep at night, how are you going to feel in the bed before you die, you have done horrible things to those who might or might not stand by you at that moment. For how long are you going to live like a mouse in the hole, getting cheese from other peoples hard work, for how long are you going to fake it and create distraction?
Honestly, there are white lies we need to use for survival purposes or to use them as a trampoline to help us go on the other side, it is part of the life unfortunately, and for some tangible reasons we can not do things straightforward at all times, even though it is the only thing I would love the most (I am an empath, my downfall and my strength is honesty, I would prefer to get things done in the truest ways, but I get stuck in what I can not do, I have to follow societal betraying rules, and that my dear deeply sucksss…).
Moreover, we can have it all if we believe in our abilities and that we are deserving of the goodness, if we do not get what we want it simply means it is not for us, as a result, we will be provided with something even better, way better than we thought, especially when we are pure and sincere because Universe gives you back what you put out there sooner or later.
Let’s say you got something from me today, but your intention was not for the best of all included, it will hunt you forever…, if not in this life in the other one, it will chase you until you pay your debt, at times even double.
I will go as far as to say that I cannot stand those who lie, steal, cheat, use and abuse others, those are the biggest losers to me, those are true failures, no matter their riches, looks or their authority, no matter how much they think they have, or how big they are, to me they are nothing, absolute garbage of the society, and we do not have to close our eyes nor our mouth just for them to keep on behaving in their old ways, we have to call their actions out, we have to point the finger to them and let them know how wrong they are, not because we are not loving or we are judgmental, in contrary because we do not encourage deceit nor falsity, we need to purify and to raise the vibration of the earth, (and we as well are trusting they have all the necessary tools to improve). In order for us to do that we have to stop being nice to those who are not deserving of it, toxic people who cause chaos, who have lost their way back to the light.
After all, I know that most of the problems stem from lack of love, but some people do not understand kindness and compassion, they have to be punished so they start learning their lessons. I am trying to point out that some have to deal with their own childhood baggage in order for them to have a better lifestyle, and you are a cheater or a liar for a good reason, find out what that is and solve it, free yourself from your addiction because you think you are having fun and you are amazing, everyone wants to be with you and you have so many options until you will not be young and attractive anymore but just an old Ill-tempered grumpy individual with no integrity, no wisdom, no feelings. You have lived a life full of indulging and intensity but If I get from you your hair and your possessions you will be left with nothing.
Heal, heal, heal it is all in your hands, ask for help if you can not do it by yourself and go through the fire but raise your vibration!
Here is an indication, your sacral chakra is overactive, your heart chakra is blocked, you can not seem to fill the void so you find relief when you have another encounter and you become an energy vampire seeking for attention outside of yourself, but you do not feel more than 5 min physical pleasure. Use chakra stones, of yellow & orange colors, green & pink, and learn how to love yourself! ❤❤
