When they are both runners!
“Big loves do not wear a white dress if they are wearing running shoes”!
You probably have come across that couple at least once in your life, they are fiery, passionate, strong-headed and stubborn spirits, they are also very fun and they are loved to pieces from their friends, from anyone, they are everyone’s favorite, they might as well die for one another, yet they have very little to no communication, or their communication is out of this world and then they bolt. Aaaaa… someone gets me so much and it is so fricking scary…
This pair has the same suspicions, and they both think that the other is at fault, there is nothing wrong with me, the other does not know how to express themselves, the other is the mean one, the other does not want to make this work, the other does not love me, the other is running and so on…
Truth is they both are mirroring each other, they are out of reach because they are not being able to communicate and to move beyond their fears, even though they love each other dearly, they go in circle’s until they get it right.
They have the opportunity to have the greatest If they could just stay there, allowing themselves to be vulnerable, overcoming their fears of rejection, of being hurt, of not being good enough, of abandonment, if they could just communicate those, they will try to understand and to be compassionate toward one another, because they are very similar even though they go in denial for months and at times even years with no resolution.
They both hold the same signature, insecure, immature, not willing to cooperate, ego-driven, big-time runners, full of ego, prideful as much as it enters between their love, they just believe that the other is wrong, the other is not putting any effort in this, and that’s why when things hit the bottom line, the Universe puts them in a corner, keeps them apart until the desire for one another burns as hell, until they give it up and surrender, or they go for another round in separation, suffering in meaningless relationships, just for the sake of not having the courage to make things right, but they do not know that they will just walk in the fire for as long, and there is going to be bliss, healing is on the other side. Do they choose to love or do they want to be stuck in the mud is completely up to them, because they have the will power to have an ordinary life in their comfort zone or to go after what their heart is longing for?!
We all know that loving couple, they are blessing in everyone’s life but they undergo suffering because of their apprehension, their lack of communication, their inability to confront it once and for all!
The only thing they are required to do is to stop running from themselves, from their deep spiritual connection in order for them to have their rewarding life, the best of them all!
Raise Your Vibration! ❤❤