What women really want?

I can not generalize this one as everyone is different but I am going to bring my point of view based on my own experience as well as to those around me.

I have been raised in a family when the only man in the house was my father and he was mostly working and building his career, so I am kind of familiar with women’s needs. 

Women nowadays are so busy creating their own future, very courageously charging forward full speed, at times even forgetting their own personal wants, because we do not want to be submissive, we do not want someone else to show us our way and to push us to become what we are not. We do not want to live in someone else’s shadow, we do not want a hero to save us from our own misery and loneliness, we no longer need a provider, we only want to be loved, respected, cared for, we want to be emotionally supported. 

We like to have great conversations, we like to have fun, we like to be herd, we need to be supported emotionally not as a need that we can not be there for ourselves, in contrary we are very independent but as a desire for having a connection with another, a desire to cocreate in togetherness, a desire to share great moments.

We do not need flowers and expensive gifts, although most of the men go after money, working harder, ignoring us completely, thinking they are doing their best for us, buying us a ticket to travel in the most exotic places without them… 

We do not need anything material if you are not available and you do not spend time with us, if you do not give us attention, we do not give a damn for possessions and luxurious life if there is no love.

Yes, we like all the comfort and if there is a package of those elements we would be the happiest and will feel very lucky, but we are not looking for a distant lover that sends us gifts with UPS, and cards full of untouchable love. 

We want someone who stands by us when we are sad, upset, happy, fun, sick, lovable, not knowing, perfect, messy, beautiful, ugly, in shape, out of shape, elegant and classy, trying to figure life out, loosing our peacefulness, and so on, because we are not dolls, so aren’t you, we are not in standstill so aren’t you, we are not always neet and looking good, so aren’t you.

We try our best to realize life just like you, we are trying so hard to keep on going and to make the best we can out of our own choices, you see we are not robots that behave accordingly to the programming.

With that being said, we will not promise you heaven, but we for sure are good enough to bring pieces of it everywhere and around you. We want someone to stay by us when we are lost and we are needing some guidance, arguing with us is not the end of the world, and you don’t have to run away thinking you will find better, this is actually resolving and making the connection stronger.

We do not care for the numbers in your bank account, we care for your deliberate actions, the best gift you can give to us is your precious time, is you being there fully present. 

We would rather have less of the materialistic stuff and more of the emotional response. We can live without you and without your love, we are able to do everything for ourselves, we just know how wonderful is to be in love and that can be fully experienced in a pair!
Raise your vibration with a cup of love! ❤❤