The way you make me feel!

 – Also valuable when someone’s Sun, Moon, Venus falls in another’s 12 house in the horoscope. 

The way you make me feel! -You really turn me on… and off, on-again, off-again…

You know when you first get into meditation since you have been used to use your brain so much, your right side (logic) is probably overactive and you do not trust as much to your left side (intuition). There are some unusual, unknown, unsettling feelings at first and that frightens you that’s the reason why some ditch meditation to try it later on, or probably never again. 

It is hard to trust to your intuition and to follow your instincts, because your subconsciousness is now being brought to the surface and you feel overwhelmed, emotions and feelings you never thought you had are in the limelight of your consciousness for you to deal with them, to accept both your yin and your yang and to release illusions or what is not necessary.

Your self-undoing is taking place, isn’t it pretty awesome?! 
No, it is not when you don’t know what is going on, when you don’t have enough information or people to share your experience with, and when you are not ready to deal with what needs to be addressed.  

Now apply the same logic when you meet someone who triggers you so deeply, someone that makes you furious, and that makes you realize that you are not who you thought you are, someone who knows you very well without you even trying, someone who gets in your skin, because you want to show the world what you want but they can see clearly through you, you are naked in front of this stranger that knows you more than you know yourself. Huh…

… you think this person that made me feel so horrible about myself must be a mean person because I think I am an angel so far and I can get away with anything, making others think it is their fault and it has always worked out, how can this one dare show me otherwise?!

We blame the other because we don’t want to see this part of ourself, but we forget (unless we are mature enough) to understand, that the other loves us indeed pretty much, they are a torch in our darkest corners. Just like when we clean our house, there are some places we don’t really go often due to the items of furniture, and we just go on the surface, thinking we have cleaned up our space.

If we did not go thoroughly though, the dust and dirt it is going to get accumulated over time until we move house or someone else is coming there to show us what is in there we were unable to see it with our unawakened eyes. 

We think the other is being like a detector, putting his nose where he should not, we can’t seem to turn the observation inward, truth is when we do we will be illuminated, the other indeed was not the bad one, was not to be untrusted, was not to be bullied and to be shut from our life. 

The other was there like a shiny light showing us what we could not know about ourselves, I know it is not comfortable at first as you have been hiding your true self not only to others but to yourself as well, you were simply awesome and now you are not. Such a shame!!!

The other is not your enemy is your strength, is the one who loves you more than anyone you have come across with, in your life, they have your best interest, they are here to help you discover who you really are and to integrate those places within you that you refuse to embrace so you become the best version of you, so you can evolve. 

Yes, they seem harsh in the beginning because they can enter in and out of your sacred closet and pinpoint what is in there with so much ease, in that closet you do not allow anyone to get in, we keep that part a secret only for us when we are alone or we are not aware of it all, that in our house there is a buried Pot of Gold covered by grass. 

With a level of maturity and a little patience there is so much to uncover, and the other trust me is the most fundamental individual in your existence, your bond is way beyond this reality, their love is unconditional because they have access to your unconscious thoughts, tears, fears, wounds, deceptive ways, and talents, still they love you like no other. 

If you approach the situation with an open mindset, weather, if the other is a coworker, your sibling, a relative, a friend or your romantic partner the connection will be unbreakable.
Raise your vibration! ❤❤