I am single and I am free!
You know, I am single and I am free! Inspired by the movie called “Mama Mia”.
For the first time in my life it just clicked, I have been always in love with love, and I have always had this idea that love and happiness are found with another!
Well, yes the other can bring a bit of happiness, can be the cherry in our cake, but we forget that we are the cake and without the cake there is no cherry.
On the other hand to make it needs time for baking, energy to design it, love to put the ingrendients together, and lots of inspiration to make sure all the investments go in the right direction so the result is deliciousness!
I am amazed by how liberating is to be free and independent, to look nowhere for fulfillment and no eyes for approval.
It is wonderful to be in love, but love has lots of dimensions, love for traveling, for books, for pets, for humanity, for ourselves, for friendship, for the nature, for flowers, for knowledge, for life itself, for freedom and there are never ending reasons to be in love with!
I am realizing that at times is better to go solo in our journey, drinking the nectar of life and discovering who we really are, what we really desire and why we are here?
It is alright to be a bachelor and to do whatever your spirit requires you to do, perhaps when you find your own illumination you will be willing to share that with another, or you might become the source of inspiration for those who think that they can not survive unless in a romantic relationship.
Indeed, sometimes it is way better to put your loving energy for yourself and for greater purposes than to waste it in relationships that drains you and do not allow your heart to be nurtured, never mind being in a relationship with someone just for the sake of not being alone even if we do not love them at all.
Enjoy your light and appreciate your time when you are unattached and do not fret being in togetherness, because we are meant to be in couple, just make sure you are in the right pair.
Ironically, the best time to learn about relationships is exactly the time when we are self-contained, it is like going to take a course, putting all the efforts there so you get the license you have been always wishing for. After all, you start working on your field!
Don’t go for chocolate flavor if you love the vanilla one, and as soon as you find yourself at your best breathing in while closing your eyes…when you breathe out and open them you will no longer be single so enjoy it why it lasts.
Give space to your soul to merge with itself before being ready to do so with another!
Love yourself! ❤❤
