On sexuality and cheating.

If you are in agony, because you have been betrayed, take it easy with yourself as when you will learn the reasons you will get relief.

People are not bad nor good, both sides are inside of us, just because we make mistakes and or premature choices does not mean we are delinquent or we want to break hearts. 

Ironically, those who cheat are more on the suffering end than you are. 

• They do it because they need an ego boost outside of their self, because they are unfulfilled and unloved. 
• They need a sexual release because this is how they get some positivity in the chaos they usually dwell.
• They have been betrayed before and they took it personally.
• They have endured great losses.
• They deny their loving nature and the more they love someone or whenever someone will show some loving feelings to them, they will go and cheat that person because they think they are not worthy of being loved, hence low self esteem…they do it because they need to escape the reality, usually those individuals are very sensitive to the environment and are very emotional, but because they get overwhelmed by so much feelings they repress it.

When that happens they find ways to channel it through finding a cheerful person, another smile, a fresh encounter, a different face a more good looking than usual, due to the belief that this time this one will make them happier, always expecting the other to be blamed or to be congratulated, unwilling to go within and to understand that what is inside it will be reflected outside. 

They undergo multiple dark times especially when they do not have someone new to entertain and to fire up their soul.

They feel miserable when the other fails to be the perfect match as the other is a human too and has faults, the other it is not always great and positive, the other is making it through life just like everyone else. 

Thus, they desperately search for another one and they experience deep raw passion only in the beginning, one or two sexual moments, maybe 3 weeks or months and than when the other is asking for more they disappear, convincing themselves that the other was not indeed a good choice, was a waste of time, and I was wrong about them, so I will go and check for another and another and another…

…unless they will realize that they are the problem and not the other the story will repeat itself for life or even lifetimes.

I hope you understand that what they do, say and how they behave has nothing to do with you, do not feel sad if your ex cheated on you, you are lucky enough they are not in your life anymore, because they are playing that game with someone else right now. 

The only thing you must understand is why you attracted them, that is your liberation, and why do you self sabotage your love life with unfulfilling situations and counterparts?! Something needs to be addressed!

Moreover, just because someone betrayed your trust you do not have to lose faith in love, in contrary you will not be bothered any longer by low vibrationional cheating, because you now know something that others don’t and you will move away from that sucking energy.

As for them let them figure things out on their own terms and whenever they are ready. Your only duty is to love yourself  unquestionably and to be compassionate sending them unconditional love & light! 

Raise your vibration! ❤❤