Postponing a decision is actually a decision!
We often tend to remove ourselves from some stories, especially when we feel the pressure of choice and which direction we should take, so we avoid it with any cost and we usually think will deal with it later on.
Unfortunately and fortunately there are few situations when life forces us to pick a path immediately, otherwise the path will not be taken and we will be at another cross road at another moment, but the “right now”, even when we think we can take all our sweetest time to delay it, it is already done, it is over.
There is no more going back to the same particular second, that’s why people spend years regretting things they showed indecision upon, and that’s when most of the self destructive behaviors come to play.
Time waits for noone, we indeed made our decision unconsciously, even though we believed we did not do anything, we passively did choose.
We do not want to be confronted with decision making so we keep on pretending and ignoring facts, feelings and when the door is closed we blame the circumstances because we where unable to see the truth or simply we where not as interested in the whole process so we just gave it up.
Furthermore we say, here Universe take it, I do not want it, it is like leaving our life in the hands of outside forces, being victims of the destiny and then we are angry at it, thinking if we could have done things differently?!
Most of the times we do not want to change our old ways, we do not want to confront our own demons, we abandon the entire situation and we do not like taking responsibility or taking leadership for our own foundation, so we skip it altogether, we deny it and we hate ourselves for not being able to move forward, because we where sleeping when we had to take actions, and we took actions when we had to stop and contemplate thoroughly.
Every day is different, every person is unique, there are no two similar ones, unless we are to caught up in our mind overthinking and rethinking for the ways we could have improved circumstances we had to give up way back in time.
Crying over the spilled milk, never getting closure within, seeking to be forgiven by those we have hurt and intentionally making fantasies our best friends, because it is way to painful to grow up and it is way to easy to live in a dreamy laland.
Raise your vibration and wake up, let the dead horse rest in peace, stop pursuing what is no longer in your life and open your eyes, since life is happening right now, not yesterday nor tomorrow. ❤❤
