Empowerment!

“Believing that you are only good, it is the biggest illusion”

How do we become empowered?
I have always admired strong people, and I have firmly believed that they are born this way and that’s their lucky charm! 

I had to meet wonderful beings and I had to go through my own adversities, I had to see myself slipping down. I had to dive into the underworld touching my warts and wounds and as much as discomforting as it was as much well built it helped me to become.

I used to think those who are patient and have it all together, those who have the ability to listen with compassion and to talk when appropriate, those who know more than others must be some entities who have never suffered because they only see neutral everywhere and they only make everyone feel better, they help everyone else to transit from a state of destruction to a state of harmony. 

They must be patrons of their minds and masters of their emotions.

Truth is they are, what I was wrong about was the idea that one should be at all times good and in confidence, to be able to give and share…

…but, when you never have been crashed, when you have never faced any tribulations, how can you understand, read, psychic and uplift those who have been in the darkness of their emotional battles?! 

We become empowered, when we trust and believe, when we hear our life story carefully, when we have a healthy relationship and when we treat ourselves with kindness. Going deeper and grounding oneself!

Being in charge of our emotions and taking care daily for our wellbeing is an indication of self-improvement and putting emphasis on our importance as human beings, as being one with the Universe, we discover our power each day more and more. 

Our brain is like a muscle, a very essential one, but if we don’t exercise it properly to maintain it’s mechanism and to make it stable, instead of us telling it what to do, he is going to function as separate from our real wishes and desires, our heart and mind will be torn in different directions without having a balanced conversation with all sides and we will feel the same, well scattered. 

Thus, don’t be scared when life is bringing you to your knees, just openly try to comprehend and ask what is this experience trying to tell me? 

Everything that might happen to you is not to punish you, it is actually a decision from your inner self so you deal with your triggers and you connect with the real you. 

At times people will push your buttons, and if you do not try to resist or you become very guarded and defensive, you will realize that you need to learn how to assert yourself and not worry about others’ opinions if you are sure enough you haven’t done anything wrong.

In contrast, if you have done, then you have got to learn how to forgive yourself as well as others, without losing touch with your core, without losing sight of the bigger picture, forgetting what you were supposed to learn. 

The whole process of being in your power it is like a bridge to go from one side to the other and when you cross it you will never be the same, but after a while another one will show up, so if you frick out from all the bridges you have to traverse you might not go where you would like to, or you might go there but terrified.

With that being said, simply you are a vessel of your authenticity and to pass the border with stillness, humble, full of grace.

After all, those were only passing links, nothing tremendously frightening, all your life is rising upon and beyond our primary limitations and concerns we came here with, to work it out this time.
So much love! ❤❤