Resisting failure!

Repressed worry of failure, contributes to more failure!

Life is all about learning, new experiences and mostly learning about who we are, we can’t stop the flow of it but we can learn how to cooperate.

All of us have to go through difficult moments, we don’t always get what we want and that is not a curse, it does not mean that we are not good enough or we will never make things right, it does not mean that we are a failure just because we didn’t get positive results first time around, usually when we make mistakes we learn even more and our self-confidence grows stronger.

Truth is to learn about how to not be fearful about something, we have to bend and to feel like real losers for a while like we don’t deserve anything good and our self-esteem will be shattered. 

We will cry the pain out, we have to in order to release the stored negativity from our mind and body. 

Probably we have to realize, that we have gotten more responsibility than we can really chew, probably we were not prepared enough, probably we were supposed to lose this time so we practice more and we become better, learn how to be wiser with our choices and to evaluate the situation from another point of view.

 
Perhaps all that happens so we become more responsible, think things thoroughly, be less concerned with winning and the outcome, see things as excercises for a better resolution rather than a punishment from the outside forces for not doing the correct things at the right moment.

There is nothing such as right or wrong, there is only growth and maturity, there is fun in living life without taking it to seriously. 

I would actually say, we grow in trust and patience more when we don’t get our way, when we don’t get it now, immediately and we grow less when we always win, even though it is never possible to always win as when you are experiencing life you are going to confront both sides of the coin. 

So to speak, you will always be presented with different choices and will power, you can be the greatest and there is going to be someone who is interacting with you who still will not like your way.

Moreover, keep in mind to always be nice with yourself, do not repress your fear of failure, I would recommend to really let it resurface and look at it as a blessing in disguise, as though recognizing it and paying attention to what that feeling is trying to tell you, you will get clear about your behavior and much other unwanted stuff will desert from your personality.

The good news is that you will not get choked so easily if that occurs again, instead you will be more relaxed and you won’t blame yourself or circumstances, or another you will simply know what went wrong and you will focus on the output, or you will know things fall out, we can’t explain everything.

Besides that when we face our anxiety when we let them fiercely show up, knowing they won’t kill us but they will heal us, we will not be afraid any longer, because we will know how to deal with it beforehand. 
Just because you failed once, does not mean you are a failure, it means you are going to do it better and learn more from it. 

Just because you failed, does not make you a horrible person, just because you failed this time does not mean you will and have to fail again by default, it might happen and it might not but you will be perfectly fine, laugh with it, after all you know it is not such a big deal.

Believe in yourself as you are trying your best!

Raise your vibration! ❤❤