Do not settle for less!

Time after time you are going to be tested, judged even by those who are very close to you, they are not walking your miles so is kind of normal I would say that you are not being understood and your choices are not approved.

Although, you don’t have to worry because after all this is your life and only you have the right to explore it as you would wish.

I am not going at all down the road with the law of Karma, and that at times there are circumstances we are obligated to face, that not everyone will know what are you here to face.

I am not whatsoever talking not even about the law of attraction that you are a manifestor and so on. I am just focusing on the here and now, you take the control of your life and of your mindset, you empower yourselves and you experiment life as it comes.

Do not settle for less, you have a body, you are a spirit, your heart gets broken when you try to force things to happen, things are not meant for you, you are not supposed to walk that path, but your ego is pushing you to find someone, to get married, to have a child the time is clocking for you…

On the other hand, everyone around you is exploiting their opinions and are imposing their beliefs onto you, so you might feel you are not good enough, there is something wrong with you, how can you not need anyone, what about your physical needs?!

I just want to stop at the physical needs, in case you are refraining from those too while discovering your life path.

They are connected with our Sacral Chakra, and there few ways you can get a release, such as going to the gym, yoga, running, following passionately a creativity, a cause, writing, singing, dancing, masturbation (if need will be), traveling to the unknown places (curiosity and thrill), reading romantic books, watching romantic movies, (I do not suggest pornography), laughing until your belly hurts, dancing in a crazy way like no one is seeing you, those give you bust and pleasure, and relax you from cravings.

All the above are activities related to our second chakra, you have to channel the energy not repress it.

Moreover, there are people that are in a relationship and have forgotten to touch one another, there are people that have many encounters and are never satisfied because their greed and hunger can’t be measured with anyone else.

I believe that’s an illusion, and I also believe you do not need anyone, train your mind with being all alone, you can choose to be with someone but not to fulfill your needs, to be there with you for all the beautiful reasons, not just physical or else.

Besides many people just have sex, they don’t know how to truly engage in lovemaking, sex is a waste of energy, lovemaking is an uplifting experience and gives you all the magical tools to be creative, eternally abundant.

Truth is, you might have your issues like everyone else in this world and just because they have what you don’t right now does not make them better, smarter or mentally healthier than you.

I know single people who are leading a lovely life and full of purpose, they are so energetic, lively such as it is pleasant to have them around, as well as I know people that have “everything”, children, partner, beautiful house, friends, money, cats and dogs and still are so miserable. Not always, but those categories do exist.

I am not suggesting you be single forever, or to avoid marital, familiar life altogether, my point is to enjoy your single life while you are in that state without regrets and to allow things flow naturally, so you don’t go after what will make you more mournful than cheerful.

Furthermore, not everyone will get married and that’s alright, your soul requires something else that others can’t understand, not everyone knows how to be single and sparkling, but you can prove them differently, that we can, and it is not a shame to be single, nor proud to not be. It is what it is, as long as the is bliss.

Nurture your spirit, it is ok to walk your journey alone, and it is ok to walk your way with another, but only when time is right and with the right person.

If you don’t believe in such thing, try to adjust your thoughts and you will get another feedback, YES, there is the right one for you, but you have to stand strong on your own, not pushing to create a relationship in the wrong timing when you are not ready, mentally, spiritually, physically, financially.

All those elements should come from your inner self, and then you will meet someone who is your vibrational match and that one is your perfect one because you have perfected YOU, and you don’t fill each other’s voids, you elevate one another through support and respect because you are equal and balanced.

You have the right to be in a healthy give and take relationship, but before create that stability for yourself and then conjoin with another, isn’t that the best you can get?!

You do not need anyone to give you absolutely nothing, you can have it all, you are an infinite being, you are lovable, you don’t need someone else to make you feel better or confident about yourself, you are enough and you are born with the right to be happy, whole and complete all on your own. The other is another whole and complete person and you make this wonderful couple.

If it is not meant for that to happen, which I am pretty sure it will as when you start loving and taking care of yourself when you start not needing anyone you become a magnetic attraction.

Thus, enjoy and live your life every day, fill your life with projects and activities that make your heart sing, fulfill your purpose each day slowly, slowly and feel good on your own, only then you will start living.

I have been saying to myself few times: “Oh nobody loves me” until I finally got the answer, I LOVE ME, and I don’t need someone else to make me feel lovable or not lovable.

You are lovable, you just have been focused in the wrong direction, you have placed that need exteriorly, waiting to be loved, but when you dive inside, you will learn that you are love itself.

Raise your vibration! ❤❤