The key to my heart is…

Communication!

We all have our principles in regards to loving and getting involved, for me communication is very important, for others might be fun, sex, money, possessions, fame, success, and so on.

If however the other is distant and it is not fulfilling this necessity, communication is going to lack or be nonexistent from my part, if I am not connected in that emotional, mental level with the other than I will go stone cold and the relationship eventually will fade.

This is my style of relating, that does not mean you have the same, you just have to discover it on your own right at your own peace, after all, relationships are our best teachers.

We all arise from different backgrounds, we are purposefully placed in each other’s life for a higher calling.

We are born in families and we have carried within their DNA, which we find it impossible to escape from, but there is a way out when that one throws us completely out of alignment with our purpose, we have to roll up our sleeves, for some extra mile.

Intercommunication is very important as there is no attachment, no amount of eroticism, no travel, no gift or valuable item, no action or unspoken behavior will make me fall and stay in love with another.

Typically, some are very comfortable with other ways of relating, so this is very subjective, for me after what I have experienced and what almost always makes me feel great, fuels me with passion for life, before anything else is exchanging ideas.

In that regard that’s why we usually are in search for a soulmate, because they come from a similar energy, they feel like home, they are our safe place of heaven on earth, and we continuously look for them, we love the familiarity and we want to feel understood, respected, loved for who we truly are, who better than a soulmate can do such and who best can help us heal our wounds?!

They chat with us with ease and we know they have our back even if that relationship does not last forever, they will always be in our hearts and we will at all times remember how good they make us feel, how real, no need for masks, no need for gloves, no misunderstandings, they leave a taste of beauty and kindness within, we feel as though we will everlastingly be pleased.

We don’t need to explain ourselves in front of them as they come from the same struggles, structures, from the same soul group, our communication just flows effortlessly, there are no barriers between us we are soothed and even if we part ways there are no feelings of deep regrets nor pain connected with one another. It is just understandable our souls know when it is time to move on and when to stay.

Communication is love, love is communication, if that is well-shaped everything else falls into place, you enjoy timing together, you get to know one another in a deeper level, intimacy is amazing, fun comes naturally, you learn how to trust in another, you realize your worth and theirs, you comprehend and support one another, you do not fight, you argue, you respect freedom and you appreciate each other’s victories. Love and bonding will occur as a result, slowly, openly but surely!

With communication I mean one spills it all out, scars, fears, feelings, emotions, the past, and the other stays there, listens, understands and reassures us that all is going to be well.

Then the roles are switched, one confesses and the other lends an ear with compassion and supports, and advises, thus, they merge without fear onto the waterfall of love.

What do couples most likely do?
They either stop sharing their experiences, they ignore one another, everyone lives their life separate ways, only sharing the bed and the bills, probably a fake holiday or two. They miscommunicate, trying to listen for their own selfish interests, using information against the other.

Such a shame! My grandmother used to say sleeping with your partner is like sleeping with the snake, with your enemy, you don’t even know who the other is and you are not even sure if you will wake up the next day.

Regardless, things are not supposed to lead this way, and we are not leaving anymore my grandmother’s old fashioned timing, we are here to validate stuff from the heart, as this life is a spectacular show.

Anyhow, what we only get and give is love and few good memories, so now you choose do you want to spend your life with a snake, do you want to be the snake or you want to enjoy your life with your best friend and your ultimate sweetheart?!

Raise your vibration! ❤❤