I am not a failure!
We will know we have evolved enough when we are not terrified by failure or success because we no longer are identified with them and we are also aware that those are impermanent.
There are wonderful, talented individuals who have never taken chances that life has offered simply fearing failure because they have connected so strongly that belief with their entire being.
Failing is part of life, just like everything else we have to go through, unless we stay in our room not taking any actions and no interaction with others, still, we will waste our life isolated and we will be always judged, with or without us doing a thing.
Although, the problem does not stem from failing and what we believe for ourselves, but from the fact that we can’t let go of control, we want to look always good and be the best, but what if we see failure equal to success, as they are both the same, you are neither one to be honest, unless you are convinced that you are?!
Moreover, think about it, when you will leave this body and this lifetime, you will not feel any of those feelings, not even love nor hate for that matter.
Furthermore, do not worship any of those for they are only held in your physic, however, you are not a failure, you are not a success, you are free of them, at times you experience one and at other times you experience the other.
Celebrate life instead while you still have this body, everything else it is just an expression of life for to you have the knowing of all the emotions, as long as you realize you are not such, you will be liberated from expectations of this incarnation and from defining yourself according to what you are not.
When you find that truth within, you will not suffer when failure happens and you will not get attached to the opposite either.
To conclude, sometimes we sabotage our direction focusing entirely into a single project that might as well be beyond our current maturity, thus, self-inflicting our agony, therefore be mindful of suchlike endeavor.
Meanwhile, find what is your forte, what are you good at and practice it until you become a maestro, and let life lead you to your true aspirations.
Raise your vibration! ❤❤