Who is running the show?
Who’s the master of your destiny, your inner child, or the adult you?
Unfortunately, even if we have been raised in the best family environments and we have been treated with love and care, it takes only a split of a second to feel abandoned and to carry that fear and anxiety for so long.
So is it the grown-up that is being the director of your life or is it the wounded inner child, as no matter how perfect we think we are, we certainly have flaws and we are here to embrace them, to integrate both the little and the big one and to become a true power.
However, we have to touch our emotional scars at first, and listen to them, in order for us to become independent and live in peace.
Who is being the main actor in your throne, is it the betrayed, the neglected, the shamed, the blamed, the rejected, the abused, the bullied child or you are claiming your life back and you are being in charge as a mature individual?
Do you feel that your life is in your hands and you are the creator or you are still hung up to the past?
Think about it, you want to be loved, but you have closed your heart, you want to be in a healthy relationship, but you are involved in drama and power play, you want to be responsible, but you find yourself a victim of circumstances, you want to choose for yourself, but others keep on deciding for you…
You want to feel alive and to enjoy life outside of your comfort zone, but you are frightened to do so, you want to enjoy every single moment and explore life with curiosity, but your sleeping child is taking you back to its shadows, keeping you stuck in the darkness due to fear of being hurt and of embracing life.
You want to accomplish your goals, but you feel unable to do so, you wake up in the morning and you would like to do something different, but you can’t handle change. Does this sound any familiar?
Have you ever wondered who is stopping you from having what you want and being who you want?
Yes, that’s right it is nobody but your wounded inner child, he has undergone the process of getting defensive and he has learned how to build walls, he is trying to protect you from yourself, as you are in a grown-up body but you are as scared as him, you have been trapped in him, no matter how huge and muscular you might seem.
You need to make a new pact, to rewrite the contract, to befriend with this kid, have fun together, and let him help you to be playful, interested in discovering, be creative and vulnerable, but do not forget to let him know that you are fully-grown, and you are in the driving seat.
RS❤❤
