The art of dating!

We have all been on a dating scene, sometimes shortly and at times longer.

Truth is, it is so easy to date and to go on dates, there is a phenomenon that helps us move on faster, not thinking two times, not even bothering to see beyond the first impressions.

I find this indeed very interesting and we should move forward, we don’t have to stay stuck, as dating is like applying for a job, like a search for a house, it is like a dress you will wear for the upcoming event, like searching for the next car, but we also know nothing will be long-lasting.

I know it sounds ugly and disgusting as those are all material stuff, nothing is as emotionally powerful as connecting and bonding with another, but in order for that to happen we have to master dating, and to become good at it we have to quantum date and realize what gender we have predecided to be.

Relationships don’t stick, there is not some kind of Saturnian figure that glues them, not for long at least, because we scratch the surface, we don’t communicate with our heart, we go for instant gratification, we do not whatsoever put efforts in making things memorable and lasting, everyone is looking their better one, but no one is willing to betterment themselves.

There is a mixture of energies and unfortunately, I see men that behave with their feminine energy and women that are turned into the hunter, their masculine energy is predominant.

Therefore, we never feel satisfied as we have switched the most important roles,

It is quite hard to be a woman in charge, to be self-sufficient, independent, and with an entrepreneur spirit, but on the other side to act out your femininity. Women have repressed their most soft, warm, relaxed, and receptive attitude as they are daily competing with men.

On the other side, men do not feel like men anymore, their most important need to be in control, to actively pursue their goals, and their other half is being shut by those women who are taking care of themselves and it seems like they do not need anyone.

Unfortunately, here the pain begins, guys become lethargic and stop providing and girls are turning into servants to themselves and others.

Oh, Lord, who taught us to be this way?!

I keep on noticing this strangeness every day and it frightens me, it makes me lead a life on my own, as men are being chased by women without integrity, self-love, or self-respect, giving themselves easily to the first encounter.

Meanwhile, they get whatever they want, however they want with a snap of a finger, we are turning them into selfish arrogant’s and we want them to be our children’s parents. Hmmm

I deeply love independence, I super appreciate that women are very brave and bold, that they can achieve everything and are able to be successful on their own, but I can never accept this position of treating men like Kings while being all other elements for ourselves.

I wish men realize their place, they learn how to date, to discuss with a woman with respect, to stop cheating their partners without consideration just because they can, to start taking responsibility for their life choices, to stop being so passive and to stop choosing that who does all the work for them.

I really really wish women have more authority and self-acceptance, that they learn how to communicate with their feelings instead of their rational mind, to learn how to be the women on a pedestal that knows her worth and that the man she chooses to be beside her is as strong and with values, as she is.

As well as she is and must be his priority, she is his Goddess, she deserves to be the nurturing mother of his children, I hope she learns how to allow her man to lead the way, I hope she realizes that by standing in her power she trusts in her partner’s ability to be a great man, father, lover and that he knows how to treat her righteously.

Relationships will work when we stop exchanging plays with one another, for our sake, women to be women and receive, men to be men and give, provide, pursue, until then keep on dating people…

RS ❤❤