How to deal with fear?!

Fear is the tip of the iceberg of so much hidden happiness, that’s right, ironically enough beyond our fears lies tremendous empowerment.

How to deal with fears?
First and foremost we must ask ourselves:

What makes me happy?
What is this fear telling me?
What will I lose if I overcome myself?

Let’s take as an example you are afraid of having children, you have constantly been chased by the thoughts of having one, it frightens you, it feels like you are never ready, it seems like you have to finish one more thing and then perhaps you might give it a try, you think you are still young and you have to accomplish few more things or travel few more places before you do so.

Usually, we keep on sabotaging our life because there is something we are not recognizing, something we are ignoring within.

I mean it is totally fine if you decide to not have children, the life is yours and you are the creator, but you have to know if that choice comes from fear, from undealt childhood issues or it is well thought and you just don’t want to have that experience?!

Therefore, we should examine our innermost principles & values, and we have to be prepared to listen to the truth, we might as well have been postponing it because we don’t want to face it.

On the other side, some of us bring in life children before they are emotionally and in some cases even physically equipped, they just follow the flow of life and sometimes they call it a mistake after they grow up.

So, do you ever wonder, which one is the best direction and the right path, living unconsciously with fear, regrets and carelessly or being aware and taking charge, being responsible for our actions?!

Life is a constant commitment and sometimes we remain conflicted, should I go there or should I stay here, or life just happens at us without having time to analyze it.

Thus, dealing with our fears, no matter how big or small they are means to inquire and to listen to our spirit, to be mindful that we like what is going on, that we are in control of our thinking process and that we are the master of our own emotional needs.

Here is a hint:
What will I lose if I bring a child in life?

Will I lose my freedom, will I fail, am I good enough, will I be able to help my child grow with all the best conditions, will I be a good parent, will I be emotionally available for my child, will I be able to provide to my child more then the basic needs, will my child be raised with so much love and compassion by both parents, and on and on, so many questions…

It is amazing to be keen to explore options that the Universe offers to us, everything is possible when we know what we really want.

I don’t have a child, I haven’t felt the desire to have one as yet, and I am still trying to figure out if I really want to give birth to another creature, however, the older I get the tighter my fear calls me to finally see it for what it is, and to answer it by taking a stand.

RS❤❤