What is the Alpha man?
Throughout history, the one who was the strongest, the provider, the supporter, the all-knowing, the councilor, the business-minded, the fair and the assertive has been called the Alpha man.
I believe that Alpha Male conception it is misused and misunderstood pretty much nowadays, more and more I see man or guys who are great at their money-making but definitely suck at having long term commitments in all areas of life, it feels like they place all the importance onto hoarding material stuff, just for the sake of making it, but without any other value behind it.
They create shallow superficial relationships with others, they use each person as a mean to an end, they mostly have failed in their romantic life, their only best friend and most important person in the world it is their personality, not even their needs or desires are being met, and so on.
I mean we have to study the word and the meaning behind it, before we use it for our personal interests, we have to understand that life is all about balancing all aspects or at least aiming to do so, even going closer if not fully, but not ignoring one side and completely focusing all the energy on the other.
Here is what I believe the Alpha man traits are:
He is an independent, advisor, bold, well-educated, intelligent, fast thinker, the entrepreneur.
He is smart but kind.
He is free-spirited but caring.
He is a go-getter but he pushes others to reach their highest potentials.
He is passionate but committed.
He is a hard worker but makes time for friends and family.
He prioritizes his relationships as much as his career.
He is competent but elegant.
He is a winner but humble.
He respects his competitors and he is open to criticism.
He is an adventurer but he never betrays, he is open-minded but trustworthy.
He does not chase fame but that comes easily to him.
He is highly self-sufficient but he looks for an equal partner.
He is open to new, modern ideas but he honors the tradition.
He places importance on creating his family but he never forgets his spiritual purpose.
He asks for help but he never uses and abuses others.
He is well balanced, observant, neutral yet, he knows how to enjoy himself,
He is confident as well as he knows how to connect with his feelings and those of others.
He has a great intuition but he is not overly sensitive,
He believes in himself but he also believes in others,
He believes in a higher power.
He knows when to stand up and when to step back.
He is a provider but values equality.
He is a man of actions but he is also a great communicator.
He is modern but he appreciates tradition.
He is motivated by the right cause.
He seeks wisdom and he is compassionate.
He is a passionate lover but he is a man that keeps his promises.
He is usually balancing his entrepreneur skills with his sense of adventure.
He treats a woman with care, tenderness, and respect because he knows his worth and the woman in his life is as worthy as him.
He is very good at managing his finances and he is also very charitable.
He is independent but never selfish.
Ladies and gentlemen, there is no label that will bring your ego satisfaction enough, therefore wake up in the morning with awareness and with curiosity to navigate through life and to learn about mastering yourselves, incorporating all parts together so you become whole.
There is no gold, nor ambition, or even the greatest love that will fulfill you if you don’t learn how to stand in the middle and to play both parts with the same intentions and intensity.
The Alpha man, with time he almost remains the same charming, the knight in shining armor individual, the one that never goes out of style.
RS❤❤
