What does it mean to level up?!
When we evolve it becomes kind of a duty to level up with those who are not at the same vibration as us, not right now anyway.
Just like an adult talks to a child, carefully to not hurt his feelings, honestly to teach him authenticity and trust, with confidence, to help him develop his personality, kindly, without arguing, that is the way we start conversing with those who do not yet understand our way, our levels of consciousness.
We have to seat and wisely hear what they are made of and what are their mental capabilities, what is their scale of spiritual growth, only then we will make sure to speak what is necessary, what they have to hear at this point in time with consideration and compassion.
Being knowledgeable and cognizant comes with responsibility and you have to choose what to say, to whom you say it, you decide what is the benefit and what is that you are giving away, what is the balance, what is important in this communication?!
Here are few sentences I wonder when I hear:
I love you more than myself!
It is funny, impossible, counterfeit, irrelevant, no one can ever love someone else more than themselves, the purest plainest example is our basic needs, if we don’t have those provided for ourselves, we cannot survive nor we can take care of or love another.
If you need to have food, you will feed yourself first and foremost, always the other comes second, it is the law of nature, we are armed with the survival mechanism of instinct.
My kids are my oxygen, my breath, my world!
Well, let me break it for you, it is not true at all, if I close your mouth and your nose, your kids will keep living you are not and vice versa, let’s be realistic.
We can look after, guide our children but we teach them, love, through our image as well, we have to put as much effort into nurturing ourselves and we have to take good care of our careers, our achievements matter too.
I totally agree, we should prioritize them when they need us the most, but we cannot forget who we really are, we need space and we are also here to fulfill our mission. Make your life about you around them, don’t make them the center of your world and lose completely touch with your inner self.
Are you really so desperate and unfulfilled that nothing is more valuable in your existence as much as you would rather want someone else to make you feel satisfied and remarkable?
We agree to collaborate with those souls, our kids in this lifetime because we have things to learn, to give and take, but when we love ourselves and are happy, we love them and every other child or human being for that matter, although no one is more worthy of oxygen and breath than ourselves, substantial egotism.
With you forever!
Knock on wood, who wants to reincarnate and to deal with the same person over and over, let’s grow up and mature, let’s make things happen, let’s have adventures and fun, let’s make love and celebrate, let’s learn and expand, however, let’s set each other free it would feel right and wonderful.
Moreover, if some are leaving others are coming, and if there is no longer exchange of energy why holding each other back?
Pretty simple, forever is only the enlightened you!
To conclude, my warning is, just enjoy life and be content, it is alright to be fond of and please yourself more than anything in this entire universe, it means you are able and know exactly how, where, and why to love.
Care for others with all you can, but allow them to have their own experiences, without you if need will be.
On the other hand, you can love yourself unconditionally, and find something you are passionate about it, you don’t need to use a child or anyone else in that regard, to make you feel worthy of living.
RS❤❤