Are you for traditional or unconventional relationships??

While there are at least 5 types of relationships, we are cut out for one or another, and at times we do even better when there is a merging of the two.

It is hard to let go of the past and our upbringing, but it is essential to understand who we are and what we want out of companionship, otherwise, we will never be fully happy and we cannot realize our full potential.

For knowing our true intentions and our heart we must learn how to stand on our own, to embrace our alone time, to be free, to contemplate, and to ask many questions as to what extent we can give up of this freedom, this joy, our space for another?!

How ready are we to compromise and to stop standing in the way of our bliss, we should get in touch with our higher self and embody that which is authentic to us.

Are you here to experience a traditional or unconventional kind of relationship, or both in that regard?

I believe in the traditional family where two individuals work together as a team to raise their children, to be best friends, and to have a similar goal, to leave behind a legacy of some sort.

On the other side, I am very unconventional, I cannot understand where is the beauty of caging someone, of inequality, of being voiceless, of not following your purpose.

So to speak, traditional is good as long as leaves room for roaming, growth, and expansion.

Although I am not for non-monogamous relationships either, even though I respect desires and differences, everyone’s needs are important, however, pretty much unique.

I love long-term commitments for as long as equally approved and appreciated by parties involved.

I love holidays and going on vacation almost everywhere if it is for my highest good, alone or together that shouldn’t be an issue.

However, I do not like obligations, to make other people happy, especially those that are not in this duo equation, not even with close connections for that matter, such as family and friends.

You see, I am a traditional rebel if that makes any sense, I value and honor what others believe, but that does not mean I will conform just for the sake of making others feel good about themselves, that’s not my job.

I certainly want to know where I stand in my relationship and if there is any possibility for a future together, but that does not mean that we should or must share everything, in mature relationships, I build, you build and we join forces, without pressure and prejudice.

It seems hard to stand in the middle of two totally opposing sides, yet we can make it work if there is love, understanding, and awareness on both ends.

Very often we follow a set of rules without really thinking about how they fit with our spirit and lives if we are ready for this or not, and there are many disappointments, divorces, unhappiness, failed relationships, because we were not in alignment with what we deserve.

Therefore, before deciding to get into a relationship or any contract, check with yourself if that’s what calls you, if not, make your own terms and conditions with the other person and keep living the best life you possibly can.

If you are like me that gets suffocated by strict ruling and legality since they both kill love and the greatest relationships, but, who prefers togetherness and does not agree with open relationships, mix tradition with the unconventional approach for your relations.

RS❤❤