Are you my twin flame or are you, my narcissist?!

If it is not feeling good right now, it does not mean it will always be that way, as nothing lasts forever even you, not in this body and not in this life form.

These two are pretty darn confusing, so similar, yet distinguishably different, as one can mean true love and the other utter disaster.

Both a twin flame relationship and a narcissistic one share a few common traits, they have a runner and a chaser, an empath and a narcissist, a giver and a taker, a manipulator and a “gullible”, a super sensitive and a completely detached one, due to that reason these kind of companionships are hard and quite impossible to maintain, to have a long-lasting bond.

I am not saying that true love does not exist, nor that twin flames cannot be together, or that is not possible to become an aware and healed narcissist, I am just saying they are pretty strong connections and equally have the force to destroy us for good or for the better.

Is my twin flame suffering just like I am?
Is my narcissist suffering just like I am?

It has taken me a great few years of much research and hope and healing, but the answer is and I wish you understand that they are not meant to experience pain, they are meant to cause it.

Thus, to help you become the best version of yourself and so you can lead a very fulfilling path with your intuition and intentions, to use your sensitivity for the greatest good, to become an example, a pillar for humanity.

To be honest, they don’t even have the wisdom to understand what they are doing or that they are helping you in some ways.

They are not considerate of anyone or anything that does not serve their big ego and their small persona. If they have chosen to walk away from your life, you are no longer their concern.

It might sound harsh but knowledge will set you free, and please do not shoot the messenger, unfortunately, I am on your side, I have asked and waited for justice, but I have learned something even more important.

1. Low-frequency equal drama, superficial, fear, unconscious, personal interest orientation, dense, unforgiving, egoistic.

2. High vibration equals love, deep, gentle mindfulness, being of service, lighthearted, humble.

Many times we state life is not fair, let me break it to you, it is very fair indeed.

Once you know how this Universe works you will not allow disappointment in your life and you will never experience things like you used to do ever again.

If you believe in spirituality and reincarnation, we are here to evolve and learn, life is a long-life education, it is full of exams, once we pass one we level up and we have to keep going on the hardest ones until we are finally fully conscious and enlightened.

If some of us are not enduring agony even though they are the perpetrators of so much emotional and physical abuse for others, it does not mean that we have to feel sad and hopeless and not be willing to see the bigger picture.

They are not here, not this time around to face violence or the truth, they are the ones who will make those happen for the rest of us.

While we will be left depleted for a while until we will understand that we might have been like them in another lifetime, all charming, irresistible and immature, we have done bad things to good people and we have never taken any responsibility until now…

Do you see life is immensely balanced, what goes around, comes around! Hear me out, no one deserves ache, but that’s how life is…not because we are mean, it is what it is, sometimes we are up and at times down. 

However, when we are the ones who are suffering and are very caring, compassionate, and cannot stand unfairness, our blood boils by the injustice, we are in a place where we have grown enough to raise awareness, to help those who need love, kindness, and forgiveness.

So, do not worry about them, if they seem to be having the greatest life after what they have done, they will get their share someday, probably you will be able to see it or if you have upgraded yourself you will never have to deal with them ever again, but they will get what they deserve, even if it will take more then one cycle of life because at some point we all advance.

Is your twin flame missing you just like you are?
Is your narcissist missing you just like you are?

Not because you want them to do so or to be in pain, otherwise, you would be just like them, but you hope for some answers and reasons that why they have acted as they did.

The truth is, most probably NO, they are not emotional, that’s not their forte, because they would have felt bad and regretful each time they do something without integrity, but mostly they are not. At least not this time around, not now!

They are pretty enmeshed with the physical reality and materialistic world, while you on the other side are more sentimental and hopefully spiritually awakened.

You two are the opposites of one another, one is more in tune with the light and the other has lost himself into the darkness.

They are not brainless, mean, or evil for not wanting you and neither are you for wanting them.

It does not matter if they miss you or are hurt over this, it does not matter if they love you or not, you should only take care of your own wellbeing and focus on having a decent life, and that is out there waiting for you at all times.

The Universe is limitless and provides you with everything that is in your highest interest, with anything they (the narcissist or twin flame, or anyone else in that regard) are incapable of offering and even more.

RS❤❤