How to be compassionate with those who need your help?

“If you are being triggered you are either ready to change and transform or you are not ready for this step at all, and that’s alright, take your time.”

I have done lots of healing in my life because I had to and because I wanted to.

I am very good at self-healing but I also know when I hit a wall and from that point, I need someone else outside of me to guide me.

However, when I hear very intense sentences, I do not feel going back to those people (BTW I have been blessed meeting very good ones, these are just examples that are coming to me by different sources), I do not feel like working and opening up to them any longer as I feel judged and naked in front of someone who does not understand me.

With that being said, we should be very careful with what we offer and how we are offering help to others, even if we have the best intentions.

If we are being to obnoxious it means that we are not good enough in our work or that we need something from you, not that we care for your wellbeing.

Here is how we can mess up with someone’s free will, knowingly or unknowingly:

“Healing does not wait.”

Oh yes, healing can wait, maybe your bank account and your bills can’t.
Even our spirit guides do not intrude with our choices, they give us clues and nudges all the way because they want the best for us unconditionally, but never ever do they make decisions for us.

So a heads up to the real and pretend healers out there, treat people with kindness, stop forcing them to do healing they may not be ready for, and allow them to do so at their own pace.

When their time for such inner work will come they will be the first ones to know and they will knock at your door without you being aggressive.

“You are dragging your feet, you are moving so slow.”

Some people move at a snail’s pace and others faster, there is no timeline in the healing process.

There are people that go to therapists and healers for years and they barely progress.

On the other hand, there are those who heal by themselves and do very little work with a professional or practitioner, but quickly find themselves on the other side of the fence.

We are all different so we have to respect someone’s ability to recover when it is right for them.

Thus, dear one, maybe I am dragging my feet, I am being stubborn or I am not doing enough work for your taste but hey this is me, and you are here to help me elevate or let me grow when appropriate for me.

Meanwhile, you can practice your healing powers with someone else or perhaps use them for yourself.

RS