I do not believe in Twin-Flames.

Twin-flames, a beautiful lie into transformation.

While I have been born a spiritualist, I love unconditionally and I have been always in search for a true union, the more I was searching the further I was going away from myself and the less perfect matches were presented to me.

While everyone, especially those we meet at a romantic level are at the same vibration as us, when we evolve and mature spiritually, we may grow out of love with them too.

I do not believe in Twin Flames, they are a concept created by human minds to find some refuge from the reality, I guess the world is desperately in need for genuine emotional closeness.

However, I do believe in real love and that can happen with everyone if we work out the differences or it may feel very harmonious from the get go, in that case you are lucky.

I do not believe that we have one or two or many twin flames that we meet them in different stages of our lives.

Although, I do believe in soul contracts, yet if we choose not to fulfill them we have free will and no matter how hard our spirit guides will make our lives we can still refuse to participate in them until we feel ready to do so…see you next lifetime…

Love is an energy that we carry within, thus someone else mirrors back that same vibe to us and love happens, chemistry, or gravity call it as you want it.

What happens when we grow more than the other person?

We can hold space for them until they catch up with us or if it is too painful because we are facing polarity, we are in opposite ends, we have to separate until a further point when we can meet at the same level again, or our paths will never be crossed during this lifetime.

I do not believe that we are half and we are looking for our other half to complete us.

No, we are already totally full, and if we don’t feel that way it is because we haven’t reached that depth within, our connection with the source is still in the making, on the way, but not there yet.

I do not believe in twin flames as the one and only, we are the one and only to ourselves and also we are the eternity in this wholeness, in this Universe.

Look for your Twin flame no further, look within.

People come and go depending on how much more we need to learn for ourselves or teach to others, however our perfect half is within, it is not going to be found outside of ourselves.

Personal experience, I was longing for someone who was the total opposite (lifestyle & values) of me, for about 5 years of my life.

Oh, yes the experience was painful, scary, tumultuous, passionate, felt like a Twin flame from the descriptions of other human opinions with syncronicities , 5D conversations, I swear I could feel that persons energy every second of my life, it also felt very confining instead of liberating.

I was told (intuitive readers) we were twin flames and that made me obsess even more, I allowed disrespect, I stepped on my boundaries, I lost confidence, I did not give myself permission to be happy or a chance to be loved by someone else, I was waiting in the bench, and I was the one to be “blamed” for nor trusting my intuition, for my conditioning and for taking into consideration others opinions and ideas.

I have lots of compassion for the other person even though it seemed as all this was not meant to fundamentally change them, but me. So, I have compassion even more so for myself.

Surely I learned to love myself, I learned forgiveness, letting go, how to take care for myself when I was feeling abandoned by a fantasy threat, my intuition got heightened and I am now an intuitive consultant.

I also feel like it was the best catalysts for me to move forward in the ascension process, but I would never call it love, true or false it does not matter, it did not feel like love, comforting and all.

Love is expanding and feels safe, it does not make you wonder, question every word, every move or it makes you feel conflicted, abandoned, betrayed and confused.

So I am glad that one day after much soul searching and healing I started to realize that I was wasting my life waiting for someone to return my love or to see the truth of this “divine connection”, when I was the one that needed to understand the truth and wake up from all the illusions.

The more I learned how to love myself the less I was thinking about the other, and even though at some point I thought I would never get over it, certainly it was all in my head.

The other was gone with that part of me that was destroyed and dead forever, and I was left with the despair of what could have been, who I was and who I am now, where am I going and so on.

Even though I couldn’t see with clarity a new beginning was presented to me, I had changed, I had become more spiritually inclined, I just had to shake myself from the old beliefs and see the opportunity to do better with my life, to feel complete and emotionally stable, at peace.

Furthermore to restart my life from a lighter & higher perspective, to allow myself to be loved and that what is really meant for us will happen without us chasing it or trying to convince others to feel about us how we feel about them.

Twin flames do not exist, but true love & companionship does, and they are not written in the stars but rather a signature of our souls frequency.

All relationships require some level of commitment and effective communication, as well as to be authentic and conscious about the fact that it may last a lifetime or for a season, and we will still be alright.

Thus, with open mindness and love in our hearts we love people for what they can bring to us right now, and we let them go when they can’t meet our needs and exceptions, in order for them to find their way so we can find ours.

Ps: from my previous posts about Twin- flames you can notice how my opinion shifts in the now…you are free to believe whatever you want.

RS